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Thirty, Flirty, but Not Exactly Thriving...

Situationship--a sort-of relationship with all of the emotions and physicality but with no real commitment. I learned this word recently as I began to foray back into the dating world after five years of wasted time and effort. There's a wonderful, comforting feeling that comes with thinking you have found "The One," so much so that you stop paying attention to the world around you and fully engross yourself in him. His likes, his dislikes, the way he smells, his favorite clothes, and how happy you are to finally feel settled down.   But that's the catch, you're not settled down for good--only for now. Then it's back on the market for you!  This is where I found myself early 2021, only this time the dating world was so unrecognizable to me that I didn't even know how to dip my foot in. COVID-19 turned the world upside down, and the dating world was no exception. Apps used to be the last resort of the desperate (or extremely busy and unavailable types), but...